I will rise above the smoke. My extended family smoked and is ⦠Now I smoke a pack a day, on a good stress-free day. You can ask every smoker what would be the one wish they could have granted and 95% of them would respond "I wish I never started smoking". I began when I was 13 and smoke a pack and a half a day of Benson and Hedges. She initially acted as though she was excited (she's wanted to move-in together for a long time and I've been ambivalent). OT: Husband started smoking. I quit smoking right before we met. Never over a pack and a half. He made this wonderful promise that he would quit because he knew it bothered me before we got married. So my resolution is to start smoking some full-flavor cigarette and continue until I'm smoking at least 5 a day. And let me state upfront here- -you have a right to an opinion. smokingagain Wed 30-Apr-03 22:58:14. You absolutely do! My husband and I got into a habit in the evening of sitting out in the garden in the lovely cool summers and talking. My husband quit and then started again and then quit again and finally took to smoking out of sight. As you must know cigarette smoking is known to cause cancer and is considered dangerous to oneâs health. I smoke a pack a day, same brand. He eventually agreed to quit when I said I didn't really like it and was worried about his health. Answer (1 of 4): Why does everyone assume itâs her and their relationship? âI want my husband to keep chain smoking,â said no wife ever. I was so naive that I had never heard of it. I was kind of freaked at first. Sometimes more. I quit 15 years ago for 4 years. We recently had this fight and right after the argument we went to a restaurant and he ordered a beer. Stay physically active to help ease bodily tension.Let friends and family members know when you need support or space.Avoid situations that you find anxiety-provoking, such as loud, crowded parties.Practice relaxation techniques, such as meditation.Establish sleep rituals and avoid caffeine too close to bedtime. I quit smoking right before we met. I have impressionable teens in my house. I have a fiery determination and indefinite patience to remain free from smoking. After we got married, I thought it would be nice if he could share smokes with me, so I started coaxing him to try it. Sorry I have very strong feelings about this. Anyway I started smoking socially again as that was the only way I could handle him smoking, I know that many people on here will think I am off my rocker and maybe I am a bit weird but for some reason while I was with him and I was smoking too I could tolerate the disgusting habit. Many moons ago, my husband started smoking (he didn't when we met), he got really bad at one point and would be going out to smoke in our garden every hour or so. In reply to: Ron 's message, "Re: How I started smoking at age 40" on 23:56:58 02/05/02 Tue. One day, he decided to fulfill this fetish by getting his wife to start the habit of smoking. Unfortunately, I think we have to eliminate this option straight away. That is not news. I have been with my husband for seven years and he has been a non smoker the entire time, or at least what I thought to be the entire time. When my husband and I started dating three years ago, we both had a strong opposition to smoking. Cathy started smoking cigarettes years ago for her smoker husband named Paul. We both smoked for 1-2 months and finally I told her I wanted her to stop smoking and go to therapy before we moved in together. The next scene takes place 2 weeks after she started smoking and Amber has learned how to smoke sexy. This was upsetting to me but because I understood how stressed he was I didnât want to put more pressure on him. But there is truth. Mar 18, 2008. My husband Eric has smoked a pack a day (or more) since I met him. I had one last night and it felt so good, i've had 3 today. Regina-Phalange. Unless you completely avoid all levels of closeness and intimacy in your relationship, smoking is a habit that leaves traces on even the most careful person. Kudos to you for wanting to! After months of no success, he finally relented. Got my Husband to start smoking. I'm really excited by this. His parents smoked, and he hated it. I love being a smoker. She is so sexy when she smokes. Let him indulge in activities that make him happy, even if you may dislike it. Date Posted: 00:06:13 02/06/02 Wed. I have been with my husband for seven years and he has been a non smoker the entire time, or at least what I thought to be the entire time. After weâd been together about 8 months and, at times, he had tried to persuade me to try a cigarette, iâd got to the point where i was becoming quite irritable about him smoking. Sep 10, 2018 at 9:57 PM. Anyway, the more I think about it the more excited I get -- and it will blow my husband's mind. Then they had a delay. When i met him he said he'd quit... but then it started again and i realised it was an every day thing. My husband smokes weed every day. The only way you can get a sure answer is by talking to him. break,co worker said OK.a few minutes later my wife wrote asking. Try and keep the home stress free and joyful. At one point I was up to half a pack a day of Marlboro's, but I was able to cut back alot on my own. I was so naive that I had never heard of it. That is the critical phase, and around 95% fail at that point. In the past seven years, Iâve watched as signs of his habit slowly creep across his boyish face, his working manâs hands, his gentle smile. In the bathroom, I spritz some lavender body spray and walk through the mist. Hope You All Enjoy.Please Subscribe. coworker,if she remember where she 'hid her cigarettes and lighter on. In fact, smoking makes Alzheimer's less likely. I actually didn't start smoking until after I started nursing school (been smoking approx 15 months). Dogzilla October 3, 2000, 2:06pm #8. John Barleycorn. My husband and I got into a habit in the evening of sitting out in the garden in the lovely cool summers and talking. After I had been smoking about three months, my husband had semi-emergency surgery. About 15 months ago, I started seeing a new guy. My husband recently revealed his smoking fetish fantasy. In addition, second hand smoke, inhaled by those around the individual who is smoking is equally dangerous to health. By Anonymous Jan 20, 2018 Please don't start actually smoking and inhaling. I'm a smoker and i absolutely hate it. Oct 28, 2012. Before she started smoking, she was a good girl.Young, athletic, brilliant, a strong member of the 8th grade pom team, and a normal student. Then came high school, and with it, influences beyond her wildest imagination.New people, new sensations, havin' a party life. A smoke every now and then helps mellow things out.Then came marijuana, and boy what a rush that was! I'm really excited by this. I had one last night and it felt so good, i've had 3 today. Mostly trough school but some of my closest friends also happened to be my neighbors. One of the biggest triggers of smoking habit is stress. Here we go! Except for me. He's smart, thoughtful, kind, and sexy - I love him. (13 Posts) Add message | Report. My only issue is, Jeremy has an obsession/fetish with women smoking cigarettes. We both agreed we would NOT smoke. As you must know cigarette smoking is known to cause cancer and is considered dangerous to oneâs health. Keep in mind, oddly enough, these "closest friends" were not in my school. I am supposed to quit soon according to my husband. Perfectly normal, my sissy husband loves watching me smoke. Anyway I started smoking socially again as that was the only way I could handle him smoking, I know that many people on here will think I am off my rocker and maybe I am a bit weird but for some reason while I was with him and I was smoking too I could tolerate the disgusting habit. I recently married the most amazing man in the whole world, "Jeremy." Keep the home environment happy. If I don't like them then, I can quit. I always thought he was a big anti-smoker. There are lots of possible reasons for this. Now two years later my baby is a beautiful healthy child, my husband has a great job, and he smokes two packs a week. I loved to see her smoke. I stayed with him prior to going into surgery. One day, my very healthy athletic ⦠I have been feeling very stressed for a while now and fed up about everything. My story is more about how I succumbed to temptation and how I started smoking again. smokingagain Wed 30-Apr-03 22:58:14. Then, 9 months ago, he told me he had a smoking fetish. Kudos to you for wanting to! He actually bought an external hard drive for his computer because his collection of porn got so huge. I am starting to feel good about myself again. PlentyOfPubeGardens Fri 26-Jun-15 21:11:47. But I'm horrendously addicted to them. Other girls smoking. Started smoking again!! He has eliminated almost all the harm from smoking so try to support him in this if you at all can. I would do everything in my power to have her quit. How Should I Respond To My Husband When He Badgers Me To Start Smoking To Satisfy His Cigarette Fetish? Perfectly normal, my sissy husband loves watching me smoke. I have had this nagging desire to go out and buy cigarettes for a few weeks and yesterday I did! I always thought he was a big anti-smoker. We really clicked and started dating. We connect, communicate, understand and love everything about each other. 1 Ask your husband to stop smoking for the sake of those around him, chiefly you and your son. Now, often, I smoke multiple times a day. It's a descent into a vastly inferior lifestyle. Then they had a delay. His smoking costs us almost $4,000 a year. My extended family smoked and is now dying from it. His parents smoked, and he hated it. About a year after that I would notice different porn on his computer. In addition, second hand smoke, inhaled by those around the individual who is smoking is equally dangerous to health. That was years ago now. It could be your husband is going through something heâs internalized and smoking gives him some stress relief. We connect, communicate, understand and love everything about each other. By Anonymous Jan 20, 2018 So I did because I loved him so much that I would do anything for him. farside said: My wife and I have been married for seven years and over the course of our relationship I have kept something from her: I have a fetish for women that smoke. He asked one evening for me to smoke during sex, I did he absolutely loved it. We donât know you, him, your marriage or your current situation so ⦠He always had a smoking fetish as a child and was helplessly addicted to it. Or so he thought. 6. level 1. Rewards work well for successful stints without smoking.Aversion therapy (like Pavlok) can help to quit the habit.Determining and avoiding the habits and behaviors that lead to smoking. My husband wasn't a smoker when we met. (13 Posts) Add message | Report. Ask him why he all of a sudden wants to be an inferior person. I have been feeling very stressed for a while now and fed up about everything. We really clicked and started dating. Friday.co worker stated no try looking in top desk drawer, wife wrote. Anyway, the more I think about it the more excited I get -- and it will blow my husband's mind. He asked one evening for me to smoke during sex, I did he absolutely loved it. âMy wife has started smoking, and the image of her doing that eats me up.â In one of the posts from this Reddit user, not only does he hate seeing his spouse smoke, but itâs actually making him think about separation.For something thatâs supposed to relieve stress, smoking can eventually destroy a relationship. He's smart, thoughtful, kind, and sexy - I love him. Then recently he went back to smoking. my wife stayed its 2:30 time for my smoke. Tell your spouse how you feel. Please don't start actually smoking and inhaling. and co worker/smoker. In reply to: Ron 's message, "Re: How I started smoking at age 40" on 23:56:58 02/05/02 Tue. back saying not there any place else,co worker stated try filing. Then, 9 months ago, he told me he had a smoking fetish. Do you want him to have a habit when he comes come, constantly smoking indoors, or going outside for a smoke, smelling like dirt, constantly needing to go buy more cigs or tabacco, etc. Hi everyone. I would think they are ways you could indulge him in this fantasy without endangering your health. Date Posted: 00:06:13 02/06/02 Wed. But I'm a closet smoker. If I don't like them then, I can quit. Only show this user. If possible, speak to his friends who can help him face stressful situations easily. My husband is a pot smoker. Regina-Phalange. Answer (1 of 16): Hi Iâm Laciâs wife. MsLonely. After I had been smoking about three months, my husband had semi-emergency surgery. He is stressed out and under pressure so he is smoking. Kicking snow over my ashes, I head inside, washing my hands at the kitchen sink. I also started my wife smoking, back when we first started dating. One night my husband offered me a puff of his cigarette and I took it. Let's rewind a little. I started because of my boyfriend, heâd always smoked and, though i wasnât anti smoking, i wasnât a particular fan either but i tolerated my boyfriend smoking. After weâd been together about 8 months and, at times, he had tried to persuade me to try a cigarette, iâd got to the point where i was becoming quite irritable about him smoking. HUSBAND IS NOT COURTEOUS WHEN SMOKING POT. It was incredibly romantic and relaxing and a wonderful time. She initially acted as though she was excited (she's wanted to move-in together for a long time and I've been ambivalent). I started smoking at work and while driving, on a regular basis. She reveals a cigarette and lights it up for him. Now, while I still smoke, I might smoke that in a week. About 15 months ago, I started seeing a new guy. I stayed with him prior to going into surgery. Answer (1 of 4): Most of the smokers that stop cold turkey go back to smoking six months to one year after they stopped. Then he made me start smoking because he said he thought it was sexy. So my resolution is to start smoking some full-flavor cigarette and continue until I'm smoking at least 5 a day. Dear Harriette: I am at my witsâ end. Something A Bit Different. Answer (1 of 16): Hi Iâm Laciâs wife. 9. I would think they are ways you could indulge him in this fantasy without endangering your health. On week days when he gets home from work and on weekends usually after lunch. We both smoked for 1-2 months and finally I told her I wanted her to stop smoking and go to therapy before we moved in together. This was a bit of a shock coming from him, he is a health nut! 2. I had not ever smoked weed in my life. He was in-between jobs, my baby got meningitis and life was stressful. If your husband or wife comes to you and says they are going to start using pot and you are uncomfortable with that, ideally they should submit to your opinion and avoid using marijuana. It didnât take him much to do it. When my husband and I started dating three years ago, we both had a strong opposition to smoking. Sep 10, 2018 at 9:57 PM. He was a smoker and it always made me want to smoke with him. Getting wife to smoke. My story is more about how I succumbed to temptation and how I started smoking again. My husband and I are in our fifties and have been very happily married for 32 years. Growing up, I had a lot of friends. He was a smoker and it always made me want to smoke with him. So, the first thing you should tell him is that heâs not alone. He nevers does that. Smoking of any kind is nearly impossible to hide, especially from your spouse. When he got back from deployment, he confessed he did smoke and had started when he deployed. In fact, smoking makes Alzheimer's less likely. I started because of my boyfriend, heâd always smoked and, though i wasnât anti smoking, i wasnât a particular fan either but i tolerated my boyfriend smoking. Two years ago he started smoking again. You can put the effects of your partnerâs smoking into perspective by doing the following:Provide a cost analysis. ...Discuss how this habit isolates them and even you from social situations that donât allow smoking.Express that you want to live a long life with them in it, and youâre concerned that their smoking wonât make that possible. My husband recently revealed his smoking fetish fantasy. It's rotten that he started smoking again after so long but it's actually really, really good that he's switched to vaping. Started smoking again!! I recently married the most amazing man in the whole world, 'Jeremy.'. When I first started smoking cigarettes in my early 20s, it just kind of happened â a cigarette here and there, usually at a bar, sometimes on ⦠:rolleyes: I think Iâll smoke for a while more and thn quit. This was a bit of a shock coming from him, he is a health nut! Hi everyone. She was 17, I was 19, and it was hopelessly romantic to smoke cigarettes and talk all night. Scene 2: Skyping With Her Boyfriend. I was trying to get pregnant and then I did and stayed quit. The nicotine withdrawal of the last 5 days has been physically tough: Nausea, sweats, headaches, and a feeling of emptiness. My wife used to smoke a half pack a day of Marlboro Reds. 1. I selfishly wanted her to smoke more. I was kind of freaked at first. Dear Abby: I am a 28-year-old female. She stands in a tight dress as she Skypes with her boyfriend and tells him how much she misses him and that she has a surprise for him. I got pregnant (unplanned) and he promised he'd quit - and he did quit until our baby was about 6 months old.. ⦠We are both non-smokers and she is very anti-smoking and has nagged her father to quit for years. I have had this nagging desire to go out and buy cigarettes for a few weeks and yesterday I did! He has been working out of state for the last six months and during date night Saturday night he casually disclosed to me that he's been smoking one cigarette a day for the last five â¦
